Ok, so let me give you roadmap of where things are in my goals:
Health goals: Stomach reset is still going. I’ve made an appointment with a new Doctor (that’s next week) also one with an allergist.
Business goals: I’ve announced my Pilates retreats! I’m so excited to start traveling for a living.
Money: My hubby and I have made our plan to be debt free by 2017. I also have been accomplishing a task I have always avoided. Updating my quickbooks every week! I used to wait until the end of the year. Totally avoiding my money. I told myself 2016 would be different. So far so good.
Fitness: I had a week of being sick so my running and training took a break. But, feeling better and getting back at it.
This week is a busy work week. To stay on track I have put everything I need to being doing in my omnifocus. Love the reminders. If you have lots to keep track of I highly recommend it.
Still feeling yucky this week–and we are getting lots of cold weather back east–but I got out the yoga mat twice this week, and I’ve been trying to stretch every morning.
I forgot to say this at the beginning of the year, but I’m putting $30 a week away for vacation. So even though I’m terrified at my spending, I AM saving money so I can go somewhere tropical again for the holidays–and I’m on track!
MY COVER ART IS SO PRETTY!!! I can’t wait to share it! For spoilers–check out the Facebook page for The Time Turner
Signed up for two more classes, and had the second part of my class from last week. I’m feeling good about this!
Financial responsibility AND finding a workout routine!
Exercise for purchases!! Worked it out with my Financial Coach today that I need to feel my purchases and not just in my wallet. I was walking by a store that had a knockoff brand that I LOVED 10 years ago. When I didn’t need to be a human turtle and carry everything with me and on my back. Daily. In other words it wasn’t practical. But, I reasoned with myself, it was cheap. I realized two things in this moment:
1) Impulse purchases and low dollar items are what are my downfall.
2) If I attach a physical responsibility to my monetary want, do I still want it? As in, was the bag worth $10 AND 10 push ups. Nope. My desire to own that goes away.
Ok, I realize this isn’t the complete answer to my work out issue, or to my financial issue, but its maybe a step in the right direction.
Focusing on my relationship with myself:
I haven’t touched on this one yet in my updates–partially because I sort of do it and don’t know I’m doing it. However, I should report. It is now a habit to have face time, as in be in the same location with, a friend.
LL and I are picking books for our podcast that are in the personal growth/self-help arena, and I’m focusing on other things in my life that make me stronger as a single person. So I’ll be a part of a pair, not a half a person until I find someone.
Cleaning and Organizing:
I went through a lot of papers that were just sitting around my room. I often times open mail, and keep the part that is important and then “refile” it in my room in a pile. I need to figure out a better way to do this… if you have a good idea on filing papers that I just need to look at in a week or so when I have time to actually read them, and them will toss or actually file them, please leave a comment or email your suggestion to email@example.com
My relationship with money:
I’ve got a note pad page on my phone and I’m noting everything I spend. UGH. I HATE writing down every purchase. I feel like it might be easier if I just walked down the street tossing coins like rose petals. This is a blindfold removed from my eyes. Grace says to spend normally so we can analyze… but its really hard. I’ve stopped myself a few times when I should have spent something.
Finding an exercise routine I can stick with:
A lovely reader suggested I put exersizes on slips and draw them from a jar. Which sounds fun…but I haven’t done it yet. I also look across to Central Park (I live around the corner, not ON the park) and think: ooh the blizzard left some snow, that would be fun to run in…but I haven’t yet–I talk myself out of it thinking of the cold and the wet. I’ve realized that I need to keep myself accountable in the health and exercise world. So, I need to pencil in time to do that AND/OR have an exercise buddy–LL and The Husband did this, and they RAVE about it, they even make it happen while on vacation.. but I don’t even have a regular routine for anything in my life. The closet thing is morning coffee… but even that varies some days.
I miss living near my friend Bryan–I literally walked uphill in the snow to go to the gym with him, a few times a week. It was great because we would get on the treadmill and gab–so 30/45min would go by and I didn’t realize it. I kept that up for a couple months.
I really WOULD love suggestions!!
One step forward, two steps back, is what this project feels like at the moment. I just want to get it DONE!! Working on finding copy editors… if you know of anyone who works cheaply and is good, please leave a comment or email me their info!! firstname.lastname@example.org
Finding an agent:
Took an acting class this week and met a casting director of a theater I really admire. It went well. So fingers crossed. Signed up for another acting class next week!
This week was harder than the last… but the second week of anything usually is… breathing and powering forward. Its too early for a Trough of Sorrow!!
My relationship with money:
Ugh. My friend Grace has offered to be my financial coach for the year. For January I’m writing every purchase and outgoing amount of $$ down. Already I’m a kid who doesn’t want to go to school about this. I’m not liking what I see. Telling myself that Future Clare is very happy to be debt free.
Finding a workout regimine I can stick to:
I went to my friend Michael’s spin class. My first spin class ever. Stay tuned for that blog…I still can’t tell you an answer if I actually liked it or not. It’s not a daily or weekly thing for me. Maybe monthly. But I am inspired to try out new classes or workouts that I hadn’t previously thought that I would like.
Publishing my book:
I found a graphics person for my novel cover and set her to work. Still trying to get help through GoFund Me. Have done a lot of research on self publishers.
Overall I’m feeling hopeful and still feeling abuzz about my goals!